By: Honour Chokote
This article is to help advise men on how to comport themselves to look amazing and feel it too, despite their stature. Although the advice I will give could apply to every man out there. There are more men with a unique stature and may slightly differ.
We all have our insecurities regardless of height/weight combination (or height and shoe size, in this instance). And for each insecurity, there’s a way to overcome it. Finding well-fitting clothes is the key to looking your best, whether you’re 4’4″ or 6’4″. It’s all about fit, fit, fit!
Regardless of what your weaknesses are, you ought to keep in mind that there are different things that you could be more centered around; like being benevolent, taking a shot at building yourself, and chipping away at identity qualities. Concentrating on these will help build up your self-confidence and take your psyche off your God given stature.
When you end up in such a circumstance you ought to keep your mind set on the things which you can change and not whipping over things you can’t. In your life, there are so many things you can’t control — your height, going bald, your IQ, how you were raised… the rundown continues. Concentrating on these things are an entire exercise in futility. You should rather invest your energy in knowledge (instead of crude insight), abilities, people aptitudes, fitness, appearance (dress, prepping, peculiarities), relationships and many more. These are the regions on which you ought to center your physical and mental vitalities on because these are the things that prompt confidence.
Confidence isn’t genuine. It’s a mental develop. It’s not the “thing” but rather the outcome. Which is the reason just advising somebody to “be more sure” isn’t exceptionally useful.
Male individuals from this short-statured group frequently voice their disappointments with dating and accuse their tallness for their absence of sentimental achievement.
Regardless whether this is the situation, as a rule the guidance they get, goes something like: “Ladies couldn’t care less about stature, they think about confidence. So, you ought to quit dwelling on your stature and attempt to be more self-confident.”
If only it was that simple! You can’t simply be confident. Consider what confidence is: A sure man is confident. He acknowledges and depends on his capacities and qualities. Regardless of whether it’s moving toward a lady, nailing a meeting, or setting-up a latrine, a sure man feels that he can take care of business. He has faith in himself enough to give other individuals a chance to confide in and depend on him.
That sense of pride and independence is self-confidence. Also, you can’t get a greater amount of that by considering and trusting. You need to give yourself motivations to put stock in yourself — reasons that have nothing to do with the stuff you can’t control, like your height.
The correct garments can underscore the positive parts of your build, limit it’s not hot parts, and make you look more fit, set up together, manly, and good looking than you “truly” are. This has an impact that takes a shot at two levels: you feel better about yourself and hence hold yourself better, and in the meantime, people compliment you progressively and approach and associate with you in an unexpected way. Both impacts encourage into a positive feedback circle: the better you look, the surer you act. The more confident your demonstration, the more positive feedback you get from others, which just makes you feel more confident.
Remember it’s all about SELF-CONFIDENCE!